5 Common Mistakes Parents Make During Christmas In Lubbock

The holidays are a magical time in Lubbock—houses glowing with lights, kids counting down the days to Christmas, and festive music everywhere you go. But if you’re a parent, you know this season can also be downright exhausting. A parenting expert recently broke down five holiday mistakes we all tend to make, and honestly, they’re a game-changer for keeping your sanity intact.

1. Unrealistic Expectations

It’s easy to get caught up in making Christmas "perfect," but y’all, we don’t need to go full Clark Griswold with 10,000 lights and cookie marathons. Focus on a few fun traditions that don’t wear you out. Remember, your kids just want your time and attention—not a Pinterest-worthy holiday.

2. Bribing with Christmas

I get it, the "Santa’s watching" line is tempting, but using Christmas as a behavior bribe can backfire. Instead, emphasize the spirit of the season—kindness, generosity, and family time. That’s what they’ll remember, not the threats of coal in their stockings.

3. Playing the Martyr

Parents, let’s be real. Trying to do it all doesn’t make you a hero; it just makes you tired. If you’re running on fumes by Christmas Eve, you’re missing the point. Take time for yourself. Your kids need a happy, rested parent more than a perfectly executed holiday.

4. Being a Grinch Around the Kids

If the holiday chaos has you venting, be careful around little ones. Younger kids tend to think they’re the reason for any problems, and that guilt isn’t what Christmas is about.

5. Making It All About Gifts

Presents are great, but the holidays are about more than wish lists. Get your kids involved in giving—it could be shopping for grandparents or donating toys. They’ll learn the joy of generosity.

This year, let’s focus on what really matters. Happy holidays, Lubbock! 🎄